Assalammu'alaikum.


Sunday, April 22, 2012 // 1:05 AM. ▲▲▲
► Attachments
For those who don't understand malay language,
the quote stated that,"Allah sometimes created distance for us from someone
is because He want to protect us. So,stop running towards it."
When I saw this quote,I was quite mesmerized by it.
I guess,whatever it says,it's true.
Technically,we need attachments in dunya(world) to make ourselves feel better.
It can be anything or someone.
Because without it,we feel like we are worthless.

Yesterday,I had a conversation with an old friend.
She shared me about her problems & fears.
And she told me,she like a boy.
She kept her feelings for 2 years because she didn't want it to ruin their friendship.
She told me she gave him all the kind of help that he wants just because she like or maybe love him.
That's what we always do when we love someone.
We are all out in sacrificing because we want to see the other party happy.
But little did we know,are our sacrifices remembered?
Do these people appreciate it or they think you're just a passer by?
So,I told her,don't give your all to someone too much.
Because that's when we started to depend more on them for happiness.

As you see,our attachments to dunya is very tight.
We grip on it too much that we tend to forget about Him.
Yes,we must appreciate and value your life,but still,we have to balance it.
People comes and goes but not Allah SWT.
He will always be there for you,no matter what.
He never fails to give you strength and happiness.
And when you are in a hardship,He bless you with a strong heart.
Subhanallah. Never ever compare the love dunya than the love that He has given to us.
He's the number one in our lives,2nd is our Prophet Muhammad(saw),3rd is our mother because heaven lies under her feet,afterwards so on and so forth.
This a reminder for you and me,for everybody.
Never be too attach dunya as it causes your heart to hurt more except for Allah.
Insya Allah. <3